General retreat · 2102-G

February 5–7, 2021

Marriott, Dublin, Ohio

93 came54 First Responders39 significant others

Speakers

  • Brian Pierson
  • Scott Geiselhart
  • Anthony "AJ" Johnson
  • Lisa Callander
  • Carly Mesnick
  • Kay Werk
  • Deirdre DeLong
  • Allison Uribe
  • Dr. Ken Yeager, Ohio State University
  • Steve Click
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Friday

  1. 3:30–5:30 p.m.Registration
  2. 6–7 p.m.

    Retreat Opening

    • Presentation of Colors
    • Opening prayer · Ron McMillin, Chaplain
    • Dinner
    • Our Story
  3. 7–10 p.m.
    Keynote

    Brian Pierson · Regional Director of Community Health & Wellbeing, Mount Carmel Health

    Scott Geiselhart · Frazee, MN Fire Department

    Anthony "AJ" Johnson · Columbus, OH Police Department

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    Brian has tertiary care nursing clinical experience in cardiac intensive care, mobile intensive care, emergency and prison settings. He served in the United States Army and Ohio Army National Guard for 12 years as a flight medic and forward area surgical team specialist. Brian received his master's degree in business psychology accompanied by undergraduate degrees in nursing and organizational leadership. He is an experienced leader with over 20 years in the healthcare industry.

    Scott served as the Asst. Fire Chief of the Frazee, MN Fire Department where he retired after 24 years of service. He is a certified Peer Support Specialist and a national speaker on topics such as Post Traumatic Stress and First Responder trauma. Scott is a PTS, meth and suicide attempt survivor.

    AJ has been a sworn member of the Columbus Division of Police since 2013. He currently serves as an active member of the Honor Guard, Officer Support and Peer Assistance team. AJ is currently a member of Humanizing The Badge where he travels across the country speaking and creating events to bridge the gap between Law Enforcement and the communities they serve. In 2017 AJ was selected by the Ohio Governors Office to serve on the Ohio Collaborative where he helps create standards and policies for police agencies across Ohio.

  4. 10 p.m.

    Socialize

Saturday

  1. 8–9 a.m.Breakfast
  2. 9–10:15 a.m.
    Speaker

    Lisa Callander · Director, City of Columbus EAP

    Carly Mesnick · Program Manager, Mount Carmel Health

    Kay Werk · LISW-S

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    Lisa has been with the City of Columbus EAP since 1989, providing program administration, clinical services, consultations, trainings and administering the City EAP. She has extensive experience in working with First Responder's, and in the area of critical incident stress response. She serves as a member of the Mid-Ohio and Columbus Fire CISM teams, and is the Mental Health Advisor for the Columbus Police Peer Assistance Team(PAT)

    Carly is a licensed clinical professional counselor with supervision designation. She has been working as a clinician and Director of Programs for the Mount Carmel Health, Crime and Trauma Assistance Program(CTAP) managing the treatment of trauma and related disorders for 12 years. She participates in advisory boards, committees and task forces both within Mount Carmel Health and in the community associated with crime, trauma, and the treatment of victims and survivors of crime and trauma.

    Kay worked for 37 years at Netcare. She was instrumental as the developer and manager of the Netcare Access Community Crisis Response Team for 22 years and Critical Incident Stress Management (CISM) which assists with resiliency of public safety forces and other organizations encountering events stressful even to experienced personnel. Kay is one of the original 12 individuals from the United States entrusted by Dr. Francine Shapiro with training Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing for EMDR clinicians. She is an approved trainer for the International Incident Foundation(ICISF). Kay provided pro bono EMDR training for mental health professionals after the Oklahoma City bombing, Columbine shootings, and 9-11. Kay has extensive experience training Police and Fire Departments.

  3. 10:30 a.m.–12 p.m.

    Peer Panel

    Police, Fire, and Dispatcher peer speakers

  4. 12–1 p.m.Lunch
  5. 1–2 p.m.
    Speaker

    Deirdre DeLong · Program Coordinator, State of Ohio FOP

    About Deirdre DeLong
  6. 2:15–3:15 p.m.

    Breakout Sessions

    Self Care & Stress Reduction - Dr. Jack Malinky

    Your stress levels will be assessed. Information will be provided how stress levels effect your brain and what tools are available to manage that stress.

    Dealing with Media and Departmental Stresses - Greg Bodker & Rich Elias

    We know that some of the issues we face on a regular basis are the way we are perceived in the media and the lack of backing we sometimes feel from our administrations. We will discuss these issues as well as discuss what participants can do to minimize the negative impact it can have on us as first responders and our families at home.

    Understanding EMDR Therapy - Kay Werk

    This breakout will be an informal opportunity to learn more about EMDR and discuss some examples (confidentiality maintained) as well as address questions.

    Dispatchers Dealing with Stress - Kelly Davidson, ENP

    This presentation includes a description of traumatic stress and its impact, particularly as it relates to

    those working in public safety. The purpose of the presentation is to identify the ways in which public safety professionals are at-risk, the effects of exposure to traumatic stress, and what participants can do to prevent or minimize negative impact.

    Yoga - Liz Baldridge

    This gentle class will introduce the benefits of yoga for the mind and body. Class will consist of gentle movement and deep stretching to help relieve stress in the body.

    Corrections Officers Dealing with Stress - Dr. Tiffani Sharp

    This presentation includes a description of traumatic stress and its impact, particularly as it relates to Corrections Officers/Parole Officers those working in these areas. The purpose of the presentation is to identify the ways in which Corrections Officers/Parole Officers are at-risk, the effects of exposure to traumatic stress, and what participants can do to prevent or minimize negative impact.

  7. 3:30–4:30 p.m.

    Breakout Sessions

    Self Care & Stress Reduction - Dr. Jack Malinky

    Your stress levels will be assessed. Information will be provided how stress levels effect your brain and what tools are available to manage that stress.

    Dealing with Media and Departmental Stresses - Greg Bodker & Rich Elias

    We know that some of the issues we face on a regular basis are the way we are perceived in the media and the lack of backing we sometimes feel from our administrations. We will discuss these issues as well as discuss what participants can do to minimize the negative impact it can have on us as first responders and our families at home.

    Understanding EMDR Therapy - Kay Werk

    This breakout will be an informal opportunity to learn more about EMDR and discuss some examples (confidentiality maintained) as well as address questions.

    Substance Abuse & Nutrition - Dr. Barbara Jones-Warren

    In this session, we will discuss how the use of substances affects the mind/body/spirit, connect the effect of stress and use of substances on for the body/mind/spirit, discuss how to manage stress and its effects on persons every day, and delineate how good nutrition and exercise can help reduce the damaging effects of stress on the body.

    iRest Meditation - Liz Baldridge

    iRest is a guided mediation practice to help support healing and also gives you tools to deal with difficult situations skillfully. Based on current studies with this practice in the military, iRest has been shown to be effective for conditions including chronic pain, sleep problems, depression and anxiety, and post-traumatic stress / post-traumatic stress disorder (PTS/PTSD).

  8. 5–6 p.m.Dinner
  9. 6–7 p.m.
    Speaker

    Allison Uribe · Wives on Duty

    About Allison Uribe
  10. 7–8:30 p.m.
    Speaker

    Dr. Ken Yeager, Ohio State University

    About Dr. Ken Yeager, Ohio State University
  11. 9–10 p.m.
    Entertainment

    Vinnie Montez

    Vinnie Montez

    About Vinnie Montez

Sunday

  1. 8–9 a.m.Breakfast
  2. 9–10 a.m.
    Speaker

    "Spiritual Survival for First Responders" * - Michael McSellers - Virginia State Police

  3. 10–11 a.m.
    Speaker

    "Post Retreat Planning - Building A Bridge” - Dr. Mike Wagner

  4. 11–11:45 a.m.
    Speaker

    Steve Click · Ohio Assist

    About Steve Click
  5. 11:45 a.m.–12 p.m.

    Retreat Closing

    • Mick Yinger · Closing remarks
    • Chaplain Ron McMillin · Closing prayer

General retreat · 2107-G

July 23–25, 2021

Marriott, Dublin, Ohio

81 came56 First Responders25 significant others

Speakers

  • Brian Pierson
  • Scott Geiselhart
  • Anthony "AJ" Johnson
  • Lisa Callander
  • Carly Mesnick
  • Kay Werk
  • Adam Davis
  • Stan Partlow
  • Deirdre DeLong
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Friday

  1. 3:30–5:30 p.m.Registration
  2. 6–7 p.m.

    Retreat Opening

    • Presentation of Colors/Pledge of Allegiance- Westerville Police and Fire Department Honor Guard
    • National Anthem · Jessica Hodson
    • Opening Prayer · Asst. Police Chief Westerville Police Dept/Chaplain First Responders' Bridge- Ron McMillin
    • Dinner
  3. 7–10 p.m.
    Keynote

    Brian Pierson · Vice President of Community Health & Wellbeing, Mount Carmel Health

    Scott Geiselhart · Frazee, MN Fire Department

    Anthony "AJ" Johnson · Columbus, OH Police Department

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    Bio - Brian has tertiary care nursing clinical experience in cardiac intensive care, mobile intensive care, emergency and prison settings. He served in the United States Army and Ohio Army National Guard for 12 years as a flight medic and forward area surgical team specialist. Brian received his master's degree in business psychology accompanied by undergraduate degrees in nursing and organizational leadership. He is an experienced leader with over 20 years in the healthcare industry.

    Bio - Scott served as the Asst. Fire Chief of the Frazee, MN Fire Department where he retired after 24 years of service. He is a certified Peer Support Specialist and a national speaker on topics such as Post Traumatic Stress and First Responder trauma. Scott is a PTS, meth and suicide attempt survivor.

    Bio - AJ has been a sworn member of the Columbus Division of Police since 2013. He currently serves as an active member of the Honor Guard, Officer Support and Peer Assistance team. AJ is currently a member of Humanizing The Badge where he travels across the country speaking and creating events to bridge the gap between Law Enforcement and the communities they serve. AJ has well over a million followers on social media. In 2017 AJ was selected by the Ohio Governors Office to serve on the Ohio Collaborative where he helps create standards and policies for police agencies across Ohio.

Saturday

  1. 8–9 a.m.Breakfast
  2. 9–11 a.m.
    Speaker

    Lisa Callander · Director, City of Columbus EAP

    Carly Mesnick · Mesnick Counseling & Consultation

    Kay Werk · LISW-S

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    Bio - Lisa has been with the City of Columbus EAP since 1989, providing program administration, clinical services, consultations, trainings and administering the City EAP. She has extensive experience in working with First Responder's, and in the area of critical incident stress response. She serves as a member of the Mid-Ohio and Columbus Fire CISM teams, and is the Mental Health Advisor for the Columbus Police Peer Assistance Team(PAT)

    Bio - Carly is a licensed clinical professional counselor with supervision designation. She is the former Director of Programs for the Mount Carmel Health, Crime and Trauma Assistance Program(CTAP) managing the treatment of trauma and related disorders for 12 years. She now owns Mesnick Counseling and Consultation, LLC where she specializes Eye Movement Desensitizing (EMDR), Interpersonal Psychotherapy and Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Carley specializes in working with First Responders and their families as well as working with children . www.mesnickcounselingconsultation.com

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    Bio- Kay worked for 37 years at Netcare. She was instrumental as the developer and manager of the Netcare Access Community Crisis Response Team for 22 years and Critical Incident Stress Management (CISM) which assists with resiliency of public safety forces and other organizations encountering events stressful even to experienced personnel. Kay is one of the original 12 individuals from the United States entrusted by Dr. Francine Shapiro with training Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing for EMDR clinicians. She is an approved trainer for the International Incident Foundation(ICISF). Kay provided pro bono EMDR training for mental health professionals after the Oklahoma City bombing, Columbine shootings, and 9-11. Kay has extensive experience training Police and Fire Departments.

    Additional career highlights:

    Trained mental health professionals for EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing) Institute, an evidence-based rapid treatment for psychological trauma. She provided EMDR Institute training throughout the United States and internationally in Australia, Finland and Sweden.
    Helped initiate and remains an integral part of the City of Columbus Division of Fire’s CISM program.
    Trained fire and police professionals in Columbus Divisions of Fire & Police, area hospitals, several mid-Ohio school districts, and Ohio morticians and funeral directors, military chaplains for the Ohio National Guard and the Ohio Department of Youth Services and smaller communities in Ohio
    Trained patrol division and new recruits for CPD on recognizing mental illness and best strategies for assisting those in a mental health crisis. Instrumental in bringing Crisis Intervention Training to CPD
    Worked as an instructor at Ohio State’s College of Social Work for graduate and undergraduate students. Received the OSU STAR (Stress, Trauma & Resiliency) award for Outstanding Contribution to the Field of Trauma Treatment.

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  3. 11:15 a.m.–12:30 p.m.
    Speaker

    *Adam Davis · Author, Motivational Speaker & former Law Enforcement Officer* "Unconquered Sheepdog"

    Bio -

    About Adam Davis
  4. 12:30–1:30 p.m.Lunch
  5. 1:30–4:30 p.m.

    Self Care & Well Being Discussion Groups

  6. 5–6:30 p.m.Dinner
  7. 6:30–7:30 p.m.

    *Allison Uribe · Wives on Duty

    About Allison UribePresentation slides (PDF)
  8. 8–9 p.m.
    Entertainment

    Vinnie Montez

    Commander Boulder, Colorado Sheriffs Dept/Comedian

    Food and drinks will be provided

Sunday

  1. 8–9 a.m.Breakfast
  2. 9–10 a.m.
    Speaker

    Stan Partlow · Retired Commander Columbus Police Dept. Special Agent FBI & Vice President & Chief Security Officer - American Electric Power

    Bio-

    About Stan Partlow
  3. 10:15–11:30 a.m.
    Panel

    3 First Responder couples will sit on a panel, led by Lisa Callander, to discuss some of the difficult times they experienced early in their relationships and what they do now to have strong marriages. There will be time for questions and open discussion.

  4. 11:30 a.m.–12:15 p.m.
    Speaker

    Deirdre DeLong · Program Coordinator, Critical Incident Response Service

    About Deirdre DeLong
  5. 12:15–12:30 p.m.

    Retreat Closing

    • Mick Yinger · Closing remarks
    • Chaplain Ron McMillin · Closing prayer

General retreat · 2110-G

October 15–17, 2021

Marriott, Dublin, Ohio

75 came46 First Responders29 significant others

No agenda on file for this retreat.

Who spoke in 2021

The speakers.

Steve ClickOhio Assist
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Steven M. Click recently retired as a lieutenant, assigned to the Ohio State Highway Patrol, Office of Personnel / Ohio ASSIST program. Steve has been involved in peer support with the Patrol’s Member’s Assistance Team (MAT) since its inception in 2002. He previously served as the Operational Commander. Prior to retirement, he oversaw all aspects of the MAT including policies, activations and training.

He has been active in peer support since being CISM trained in 1993. He was deployed to New York City twice after the 9/11 attacks and worked with the NYPD peer support program, POPPA.

Steve is trained in both group and individual peer support by the International Critical Incident Stress Foundation. He oversees the Post Critical Incident Seminars for Ohio. He has been utilized as a peer in South Carolina, Kentucky, Texas and Georgia, for their PCIS / STLS programs. He serves as the Crisis Awareness Training, and other critical incident training program instructor for Ohio ASSIST, having provided training to a number of Ohio agencies including the Highway Patrol.

He currently serves as the First Responder Liaison to the Trauma Informed Care program for the Ohio Department of Mental Health and Addiction Services. He also continues to oversee the Ohio ASSIST Post Critical Incident Seminar program.

Adam DavisAuthor, Motivational Speaker & former Law Enforcement Officer "Unconquered Sheepdog"
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Adam is an unrelenting force of inspiration. He believes we all have a unique purpose and we must be good stewards of the time we are given in this life.

Described as "a dynamic and powerful writer and speaker," Adam has devoted his life to inspire others to take positive action in their professional and personal lives. His writing and speaking are not only inspirational, but thought-provoking and challenging.

He inspires, challenges, and motivates others through his books. Most popular books by Adam include:

Behind the Badge: 365 Daily Devotions for Law Enforcement (recommended and read by law enforcement leaders nationally, and a perennial bestseller)

Bulletproof Marriage: a 90-Day Devotional (2020 Christian Book Awards Finalist, and a perennial bestseller with Lt. Col. Dave Grossman)

On Spiritual Combat: 30 Missions for Victorious Warfare (with Lt. Col. Dave Grossman)

A former law enforcement officer and FBI trained hostage negotiator, Adam knows the challenges faced by law enforcement officers and their relationships. Since leaving his career in law enforcement in 2015, he has devoted his time to delivering proven tools and resources for the mind and soul. He has devoted his life to serving others and sharing his words, in writing and speaking, to inspire others to make positive changes in their lives.

Adam has an uncanny ability to speak "grunt" and to the heart of warriors. His raw, unfiltered story of overcoming the trauma of childhood sexual abuse, experiences from law enforcement, and battle with suicidal thoughts and substance abuse position him as a powerful force of hope for millions of people today. His work has attracted the attention of many influencers and he is best known for his work to deliver faith, hope, and love to those who serve.

From major universities to government entities, Adam has presented his story of conquering some of life's most smothering battles and how these principles can be applied in every life to achieve optimal performance and fulfillment.

Adam's work has been featured on Entrepreneur Magazine, Fox News, The Huffington Post, PoliceOne.com, and Law Enforcement Today. As a speaker, he has presented for the University of Alabama, Auburn University Department of Economic Development, TEDx Troy University, law enforcement agencies, military bases, and many seminars with Lt. Col. Dave Grossman, Taya Kyle, and other American patriots. His media appearances have included The Rick & Bubba Show, The Blaze Radio Network, Family Life Today, The 700 Club, The Glenn Beck Program, Team Never Quit Podcast with Marcus Luttrell, and many others.

Adam is the spokesperson for REBOOT Recovery First Responders, a non-profit organization which focuses on providing faith-based trauma healing for first responders and service members. He is supported by his wife, Amber, of 20 years, and three children.

Deirdre DeLongProgram Coordinator, State of Ohio FOP
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Deirdre is an International Critical Incident Stress Foundation approved instructor, in both group and individual classes. She is the Director of the Critical Incident Response Service and member of the Mid-Ohio and Miami Valley CISM teams. Deirdre was an EMT, a volunteer firefighter and dispatcher before entering the Police Academy in 1988. She retired from the Blue Ash Police Department. She currently teaches in a basic Police Academy and CISM classes throughout the state.

Vinnie Montez
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Vinnie Montez is a Colorado native, he grew up in the largely homogenous community of Boulder, CO, which prides itself on being a bastion of cultural diversity, but which is honestly just weird. Growing up, he always wanted to be a police officer. Now a 21-year veteran of law enforcement, his experiences as a cop and his Mexican heritage are the foundation for his comedy: you just can’t make some of this stuff up.

Vinnie got into comedy in 2007 as a means of addressing the stress and trauma of dealing with horrible situations on a regular basis. Since then he has performed regularly at Denver’s Comedy Works and other national venues. His first comedy special debut was on Dry Bar Comedy, released in 2019, Vinnie Montez: Armed & Hilarious. With a focus on telling funny stories about being a police officer and promoting better mental health for the men and women in blue, he is a favorite at events around the nation.

Vinnie has shared the stage with Michelle Wolf, Chris D’Elia, Joe Rogan, John Crist, Josh Blue, Paul Rodriguez, Gilbert Gottfried, Nick Guerra, Brian Posehn, Gina Brillon, Joey Medina, Caroline Rhea, Bob Marley and more.

In 2018 Vinnie was inducted as an official member of Humanizing the Badge (HTB), an organization on a mission to help forge stronger relationships between law enforcement officers and the communities they serve.

Vinnie has become a favorite among law enforcement and corporate audiences alike, performing for the Colorado Fraternal Order of Police, Colorado Association of School Resource Officers, Rocky Mountain Hostage Negotiators, International Association of Financial Crimes Investigators, County Sheriffs of Colorado, Law Enforcement Explorer Post Advisors Association of Colorado, National Latino Peace Officers Association, University of Wyoming, Humanize the Badge, KYGO’s Christmas Crusade for Children, Hallie’s Heroes and many more.

Stan PartlowRetired Commander Columbus Police Dept. Special Agent FBI & Vice President & Chief Security Officer - American Electric Power
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Stan Partlow joined AEP in October 2005. Stan recently retired as the Vice President and Chief Security Officer and had responsibility for Cyber Security, Physical Security and Aviation. During his AEP career, Stan has also had responsibility for the AEP motor vehicle fleet, the enterprise procurement function and business continuity.

Prior to joining AEP, Stan served the Law Enforcement community for over 25 years. Stan served the Columbus Division of Police for over 21 years and retired as the Commander of the Detective Bureau. Prior to that Stan served in numerous roles in Patrol, Narcotics, Professional Standards and Training during his tenure as an Officer, Sergeant and Lieutenant.

Stan served as a Special Agent with the Federal Bureau of Investigation from 1984-1988 where he was responsible for conducting a variety of criminal investigations. In his law enforcement career, Stan has supervised dignitary protection details, and has been a member of the protection staff of two Columbus Mayors. He has been a SWAT team member for the Charlotte Division FBI Team, and a member of the Columbus Division of Police Underwater Search and Recovery Team. Stan also served as a Hostage Negotiator for the Columbus Division of Police.

Stan is a graduate of the Northwestern University School of Police Staff and Command and the Ohio Association of Chiefs of Police Executive Leadership College. Stan holds the designation of Certified Law Enforcement Executive from the Ohio Association of Chiefs of Police. Stan completed the FBI Domestic Security Executive Academy. Stan earned the Certified Protection Professional certification from ASIS, a worldwide security organization. Stan completed the AEP/OSU Leadership Program and the Executive Level Targeted Development program.

Stan holds a Juris Doctor degree from the Capital University School of Law (1995), a Master of Science degree in Administration from Central Michigan University (1990), and a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Bowling Green State University (1980).

Stan is a member of the Board of Trustees of Franklin University and he serves on the Board of Directors of The Center for Family Safety and Healing. Stan is a founder of the Columbus Police Foundation and serves on the Board of Directors for First Responders' Bridge an organization dedicated to mental healing for first responders.

Dr. Ken Yeager, Ohio State University
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Dr. Yeager holds the David E. Schuller Professorship for Patient Compassion. He has numerous publications in areas of crisis intervention; resilience building; treating co-morbid substance abuse and mental illness; quality improvement and developing quality metrics; and evidence based practice including the Oxford University Press book entitled "Evidence- Based Practice Manual: Research and Outcome Measures in Health and Human Services". He is a member of the Oxford Bibliographies Online editorial board and a treating clinician for the National Football League Program for substances of abuse. Dr. Yeager has extensive experience working with First Responders.

Allison UribeWives on Duty
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Allison is a pastor, conference speaker and author. In 2008, she and her husband, an Antonio, TX Police Officer, founded Wives on Duty Ministries with a mission to support, encourage, and inspire spouses of First Responder's through God's word. For 5 years, Allison was a substation chaplain with the San Antonio Police Dept. She has written 3 books to First Responder spouses, "Because I'm Suitable- The Journey of a Wife on Duty", "Cuffs and Coffee: A devotional for wives of America's Law Enforcement Officers." She recently released "Because I'm Suitable- Revised Addition" Allison is a national conference speaker with Bless the Badge and speaks regularly at Billy Graham Law Enforcement Retreats.